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My uncle only let me
have the car for the day.

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If we don't do it
now, we'll never do it.

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I have to study.

4
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You don't have
to study right now.

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I know what you're doing.

6
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You just want to wait
for Heather to show up.

7
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Look, she left me that
note. She wants to talk to me.

8
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And it's not easy to get
in touch with Heather.

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I can't just call her
up on the phone

10
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and see what she wants

11
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without someone like her mother
passing along the message.

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And maybe Heather
doesn't want her Mom

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to know she came to visit me.

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Or maybe you don't
want to talk to her mother

15
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since you haven't talked to her
since you and Heather broke up.

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Maybe. You know,
it's-it's not just that.

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You know, I think Heather
wants to get back together, and...

18
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Or something... I
don't... And I don't.

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You know, I'm happy
the way things are.

20
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Yet, you want to stay home
to see if that's what she wants.

21
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Okay, okay, I'll
drive you. Let's go.

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Wait. No. You're going to
stay home just to reject her?

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No, I just want to see
what she wants, that's all.

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And do you want to
go for a ride or not?

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Let's go.

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♪ I met her down in Mozambique ♪

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♪ Into my life, she creep ♪

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♪ I met her down in West L.A. ♪

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♪ Now all the
gals'll get their way ♪

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♪ Truck on 99, yeah ♪

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♪ Truck on 99 ♪

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♪ Man, I'm feeling fine, yeah ♪

33
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♪ Yeah, truck on 99 ♪

34
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♪ Well, it's not much further
down to my Shangri-La ♪

35
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♪ I like my girls
like shabby things ♪

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♪ Just the kind of one I need ♪

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♪ Truck on 99, yeah ♪

38
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♪ Truck on 99... ♪

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♪ Leavin' your mind... ♪

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No, I'm not.

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No way.

42
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♪ You would never see me... ♪

43
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♪ Can find me ♪

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♪ Half the time ♪

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♪ You would never see... ♪

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What's up?

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Ooh.

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Get in the car.

49
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What is wrong with you?

50
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What's wrong with you,
and when did you start

51
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hanging out with guys like that?

52
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They-They go to my school.

53
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They asked me if I
wanted to hang out today,

54
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and it's all we're doing...

55
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Hanging out and
listening to music.

56
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No, I've-I've heard the
music, I know the music,

57
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and when did you start
listening to that music?

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It's rap.

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I like it.

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No, no, that's not rap.

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It's some kind of
perversion of rap.

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In fact, I think it's an insult

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to the African-American
community

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for you to call that rap.

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So, don't be looking
to me, Simon.

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I'm not going to help you here.

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Get in the car. No.

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And by the way,
who I hang out with

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and what music I listen
to is none of you business.

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♪ <i>7th Heaven</i> ♪

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♪ When I see their happy faces ♪

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♪ Smiling back at me ♪

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♪ <i>7th Heaven</i> ♪

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♪ I know there's
no greater feeling ♪

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♪ Than the love of family ♪

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♪ Where can you go ♪

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♪ When the world
don't treat you right? ♪

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♪ The answer is home ♪

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♪ That's the one
place that you'll find ♪

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♪ <i>7th Heaven</i> ♪

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♪ Mmm,<i> 7th Heaven</i> ♪

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♪ <i>7th Heaven.</i> ♪

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♪ I met her down in Mozambique ♪

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♪ Unto my life she creeps ♪

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♪ I met her down in... ♪

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Did you see those guys?

87
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Those are not guys Simon
should be hanging out with.

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And I really find
that music disturbing.

89
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I do, too, so, maybe
the thing to do

90
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is get Simon over
here and hang with him.

91
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Talk to him. It's hard
to be cool at that age.

92
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He's just trying to find
that certain bad attitude

93
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that attracts women.

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At least guys that age think

95
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a certain bad attitude
attracts women.

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Well, they aren't
going to attract women

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by blasting music that talks
about beating women, are they?

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Not likely. I'm taking
the car back to my uncle,

99
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then I'm going to work.

100
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I'll see you when you come in.

101
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I'm working a double shift.

102
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You're not just going
to sit around here all day

103
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waiting for Heather, are you?

104
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No. I'm going to sit
around here and study.

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Who is it?

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Pants.

107
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Pants, who?

108
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Pants Daddy.

109
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Your mother went pants shopping.

110
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I'm dropping off your
share of the pants.

111
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What?

112
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Well, evidently, everyone
in the family needs pants.

113
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Wow!

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These are nice.

115
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They're like, uh...

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Big boy pants?

117
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Yeah. Why-Why'd she buy these?

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Evidently, she felt
you needed them.

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For?

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She thought you might
want to go out sometime.

121
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Uh, I believe she put it, uh,

122
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"in something other than jeans."

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So, she thinks

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I want to go out sometime.

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Yeah.

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With Heather?

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With Heather?

128
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I-I asked you.

129
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Well, are you seeing
Heather again?

130
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No.

131
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She came by to see me.

132
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Oh.

133
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But I'm not going
to see her again.

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I'm not interested.

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I met someone.

136
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But-But I think
Heather is interested,

137
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which is why she left the note,
and Mom bought the pants.

138
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That's quite a theory.

139
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Yeah.

140
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So, who are you interested in?

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Oh, just a... just a girl I met.

142
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Hmm.

143
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So, um, you know where Simon is?

144
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Uh, he was hanging out with
some new friends at school.

145
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Mm-hmm.

146
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What? He's not hanging out

147
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with new friends from school?

148
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Oh, he's hanging
out with them, all right.

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Have you met them?

150
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No. Have you met them?

151
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No, but I've seen 'em.
Have you seen 'em?

152
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No.

153
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I'm going to talk to him.

154
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Why are you
going to talk to him?

155
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Well, you'll know when
you see these guys.

156
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Where did you see them? When I was driving
John around in his uncle's convertible.

157
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Why were you driving John
around in his uncle's convertible?

158
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So, he could sing
a B.B. King song.

159
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And you're worried about Simon?

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Yes, and-and by the way, do
you know what kind of music

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Simon and his
friends are listening to?

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You know, our whole relationship
has become just a-a series

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of questions and
answers, hasn't it?

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Yeah. Yeah, so, answer me this.

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Why is it that mothers just
know how to pick out pants?

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I mean, have mothers
been buying pants

167
00:08:01,014 --> 00:08:03,181
for their sons since
the beginning of time?

168
00:08:03,250 --> 00:08:05,516
Did Mary buy pants
for Jesus, hmm?

169
00:08:05,585 --> 00:08:07,496
So, you think Jesus
wore pants, do you?

170
00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:09,265
Ring, ring. Is that the phone?

171
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Oh, thanks for coming by.

172
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Look, love to Mom. Great pants.

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Ooh. Ooh, hey.

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Uh, I'll see you in church.

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All right. All right.

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You're not just
waiting around here

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so that you can tell Heather
you're not interested, are you?

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No.

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Okay. Oh, yeah.

180
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Uh, well, I'm going to church.

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If you happen to bump
into your brother again,

182
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tell him to drop by or call.

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Okay.

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Hmm.

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Mmm, look at you.

186
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You look like you need a man.

187
00:09:01,608 --> 00:09:03,252
I think he just called
you a bad word.

188
00:09:03,276 --> 00:09:04,375
A really,

189
00:09:04,444 --> 00:09:05,610
really, bad word.

190
00:09:08,081 --> 00:09:11,182
Hey, look, the little one
knows what I called her sister.

191
00:09:11,251 --> 00:09:12,462
Yeah. Yeah.

192
00:09:12,486 --> 00:09:13,951
But the sister don't know.

193
00:09:14,020 --> 00:09:15,853
Or she know what true?

194
00:09:15,922 --> 00:09:17,622
She know what true?

195
00:09:17,691 --> 00:09:19,223
Look, you ignorant little...

196
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What are you, a pimp?

197
00:09:20,726 --> 00:09:22,127
Get away from me.

198
00:09:25,565 --> 00:09:26,776
Dude!

199
00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:27,732
Hey.

200
00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:28,944
Nice one, man.

201
00:09:30,336 --> 00:09:31,881
All right. Got her good.

202
00:09:31,905 --> 00:09:33,037
Do something.

203
00:09:33,106 --> 00:09:34,038
Like what?

204
00:09:34,106 --> 00:09:35,773
Like, get that guy out of here.

205
00:09:35,842 --> 00:09:36,941
He didn't hurt you.

206
00:09:37,010 --> 00:09:39,343
He slapped me.

207
00:09:39,412 --> 00:09:41,746
From the looks of you,
it couldn't have hurt.

208
00:09:41,815 --> 00:09:43,092
Ooh. Oh, yeah. Yeah, man.

209
00:09:43,116 --> 00:09:44,760
- All right, let's go.
- You're disgusting.

210
00:09:44,784 --> 00:09:47,151
In fact, you're just
as disgusting as he is.

211
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I want to see the manager.

212
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That'd be me.

213
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Next in line.

214
00:09:51,157 --> 00:09:52,390
Go on.

215
00:09:52,459 --> 00:09:53,758
Yeah? Yeah.

216
00:09:53,827 --> 00:09:56,728
Do it... Cool.

217
00:09:58,431 --> 00:09:59,630
What's a pimp?

218
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It's a guy that hates woman.

219
00:10:02,602 --> 00:10:04,168
Hey, congratulations.

220
00:10:04,237 --> 00:10:05,870
Congratulations on what?

221
00:10:05,939 --> 00:10:07,172
On being a woman?

222
00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:08,973
On my being slapped?

223
00:10:09,042 --> 00:10:10,140
Or being called that name?

224
00:10:10,209 --> 00:10:11,876
But maybe you didn't
see or hear that guy.

225
00:10:11,945 --> 00:10:13,144
Or maybe you didn't think

226
00:10:13,213 --> 00:10:15,224
that he did anything
other than hurt my dignity.

227
00:10:15,248 --> 00:10:17,293
And that's okay, huh?
Is that what you think?

228
00:10:17,317 --> 00:10:20,118
No. I meant congratulations

229
00:10:20,186 --> 00:10:22,064
on being our one
hundredth customer today.

230
00:10:22,088 --> 00:10:26,257
You just won three tickets to
the 39 concert and a free CD.

231
00:10:26,326 --> 00:10:28,259
No way!

232
00:10:28,328 --> 00:10:29,627
Who?

233
00:10:29,695 --> 00:10:32,597
39. Hottest selling
teen band in America?

234
00:10:32,666 --> 00:10:33,964
I've never heard of them.

235
00:10:34,033 --> 00:10:35,600
Good. You can drive me.

236
00:10:35,668 --> 00:10:37,588
I've heard of 'em.
Thanks, Mister.

237
00:10:41,041 --> 00:10:42,540
39?

238
00:10:47,914 --> 00:10:50,114
Isn't that Simon with
the women hater?

239
00:10:50,183 --> 00:10:52,116
Let's do it again.

240
00:10:57,056 --> 00:10:59,190
Wait up.

241
00:10:59,258 --> 00:11:00,758
You know that guy?

242
00:11:03,063 --> 00:11:05,163
That's Norton. He's a
friend of mine. Why?

243
00:11:05,231 --> 00:11:07,076
A friend from where?
Where'd you meet him?

244
00:11:07,100 --> 00:11:08,767
At school.

245
00:11:08,835 --> 00:11:10,201
Where did you get these clothes?

246
00:11:10,269 --> 00:11:12,636
Oh, these are my clothes.

247
00:11:12,706 --> 00:11:14,549
I just made a few
adjustments, like it?

248
00:11:14,573 --> 00:11:15,773
No, not especially.

249
00:11:15,842 --> 00:11:18,710
Simon, your friend,
called me a name

250
00:11:18,779 --> 00:11:20,223
and slapped me on the
butt in the record store.

251
00:11:20,247 --> 00:11:22,947
Norton? He was
just kidding around.

252
00:11:23,016 --> 00:11:24,393
Believe me, he couldn't
have been serious.

253
00:11:24,417 --> 00:11:25,984
Simon, he slapped me.

254
00:11:27,187 --> 00:11:28,263
Well, he didn't
hurt you, did he?

255
00:11:28,287 --> 00:11:29,554
Yes, he hurt me.

256
00:11:29,623 --> 00:11:31,188
He humiliated me.

257
00:11:31,257 --> 00:11:32,857
And that hurt... a lot.

258
00:11:36,096 --> 00:11:38,656
Well, what do you
want me to do about it?

259
00:11:42,035 --> 00:11:44,402
I want you to understand
that I am not a punching bag.

260
00:11:44,471 --> 00:11:46,604
I am not a trash
can that guys can

261
00:11:46,672 --> 00:11:48,973
throw their filthy
thoughts or words into.

262
00:11:49,042 --> 00:11:50,141
I'm a person, Simon.

263
00:11:50,210 --> 00:11:51,309
I'm your sister.

264
00:11:51,377 --> 00:11:52,443
Do something.

265
00:11:55,048 --> 00:11:56,447
Oh, no.

266
00:12:00,553 --> 00:12:02,993
Hey, Mom, that pimp behind
you just called Lucy a bad word.

267
00:12:07,059 --> 00:12:08,259
This is my mother.

268
00:12:08,328 --> 00:12:09,894
This is my sister.

269
00:12:14,067 --> 00:12:17,034
So this is your mother?

270
00:12:17,103 --> 00:12:19,270
I see the resemblance.

271
00:12:19,339 --> 00:12:20,619
And I like it.

272
00:12:24,577 --> 00:12:26,043
What you say, Mama?

273
00:12:27,847 --> 00:12:29,807
I say you're all
pathetic, go home.

274
00:12:30,917 --> 00:12:32,616
Why don't you go home?

275
00:12:32,685 --> 00:12:34,319
You don't belong on the streets.

276
00:12:35,488 --> 00:12:37,388
'Cause you got
no respect for me.

277
00:12:37,457 --> 00:12:39,124
For Norton.

278
00:12:39,192 --> 00:12:41,492
Maybe I should teach
you some respect.

279
00:12:42,629 --> 00:12:44,195
You want a piece of this?

280
00:12:44,264 --> 00:12:46,008
I brought seven
kids into this world.

281
00:12:46,032 --> 00:12:47,565
I can take one out.

282
00:13:05,985 --> 00:13:08,419
Are you looking at me?

283
00:13:08,488 --> 00:13:10,921
Are you looking at me, huh?

284
00:13:10,990 --> 00:13:12,335
Well, you better
be looking at me

285
00:13:12,359 --> 00:13:14,024
'cause I'm one good-looking man

286
00:13:14,093 --> 00:13:16,527
and it's ladies night,
so come on over here.

287
00:13:21,868 --> 00:13:24,501
Hi.

288
00:13:24,570 --> 00:13:28,706
Look, if this is about Mary...

289
00:13:28,774 --> 00:13:31,014
I don't think this is a
good time for you to be...

290
00:13:34,147 --> 00:13:36,347
This is Reverend Camden.

291
00:13:36,416 --> 00:13:38,649
Reverend Camden, this is Cheryl.

292
00:13:40,186 --> 00:13:43,121
This is about us.

293
00:13:43,189 --> 00:13:44,321
We want to get married.

294
00:13:57,370 --> 00:13:58,714
I just saw Ruthie. What's up?

295
00:13:58,738 --> 00:14:00,137
One of my friends

296
00:14:00,206 --> 00:14:03,141
was goofing around and he
may have gone a little too far.

297
00:14:03,209 --> 00:14:04,489
<i>May</i> have?

298
00:14:04,544 --> 00:14:05,843
Ruthie, upstairs please.

299
00:14:08,180 --> 00:14:10,815
You, too.

300
00:14:13,819 --> 00:14:14,897
What the heck happened?

301
00:14:14,921 --> 00:14:17,621
Simon's little friend... Norton.

302
00:14:17,690 --> 00:14:20,758
Simon's little friend, Norton,

303
00:14:20,827 --> 00:14:22,927
harassed Lucy in
the record store.

304
00:14:22,995 --> 00:14:25,596
He called her a name,
slapped her on the derriere

305
00:14:25,665 --> 00:14:27,332
before exiting the record store

306
00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,667
where he then harassed
and threatened me.

307
00:14:29,736 --> 00:14:31,969
And the name he called
Lucy? The "B" word.

308
00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:33,271
What? I...

309
00:14:33,339 --> 00:14:35,639
I'm gonna... I'm gonna...

310
00:14:35,708 --> 00:14:36,718
No, I took care of it.

311
00:14:36,742 --> 00:14:38,042
She threatened to beat him up.

312
00:14:39,779 --> 00:14:41,757
Talk to him, then I'm
going to talk to him.

313
00:14:41,781 --> 00:14:43,625
Then I'm going to go over to
his little friend's Norton's house

314
00:14:43,649 --> 00:14:45,582
and talk to Norton
and Norton's mother.

315
00:14:49,755 --> 00:14:51,021
Where did you get those pants?

316
00:14:53,126 --> 00:14:54,892
Matt's... they're his old ones.

317
00:14:54,961 --> 00:14:56,338
Do you know
where that particular

318
00:14:56,362 --> 00:14:58,462
fashion trend got started?

319
00:14:58,531 --> 00:14:59,663
Prison.

320
00:15:01,167 --> 00:15:02,500
You know where you're going

321
00:15:02,568 --> 00:15:04,079
if you keep wearing your
pants like that? Prison.

322
00:15:04,103 --> 00:15:05,370
Come on.

323
00:15:05,438 --> 00:15:07,116
But we can get back to
the pants. Who's Norton?

324
00:15:07,140 --> 00:15:08,380
He's a guy I go to school with.

325
00:15:08,408 --> 00:15:10,008
And yeah, other than that?

326
00:15:10,076 --> 00:15:11,988
What made you want to choose
to be friends with this guy?

327
00:15:12,012 --> 00:15:13,410
Norton chose me.

328
00:15:13,479 --> 00:15:15,747
And he asked me if I
wanted to hang out today.

329
00:15:15,815 --> 00:15:18,175
He's probably not someone
I want to be friends with now,

330
00:15:18,217 --> 00:15:20,451
but aren't you making
too big a deal out of this?

331
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:21,886
Back up to "probably."

332
00:15:21,955 --> 00:15:24,922
He's probably not someone
you want to be friends with?

333
00:15:24,991 --> 00:15:26,757
Probably?

334
00:15:26,825 --> 00:15:27,970
Which brings us to...

335
00:15:27,994 --> 00:15:30,361
Can we make too big
a deal out of someone

336
00:15:30,430 --> 00:15:32,263
calling your sister that word?

337
00:15:32,332 --> 00:15:34,292
Are you out of your
ever-loving mind?

338
00:15:34,333 --> 00:15:35,832
I'm not happy about it, Dad,

339
00:15:35,901 --> 00:15:37,902
but guys do say
that word all the time.

340
00:15:37,970 --> 00:15:39,949
Well, you actually think
there's a justification?

341
00:15:39,973 --> 00:15:42,339
It was probably a really,
really bad word when you were

342
00:15:42,409 --> 00:15:44,690
growing up, but I don't
think it's that bad anymore.

343
00:15:45,311 --> 00:15:46,422
It's lost some of its edge

344
00:15:46,446 --> 00:15:47,690
because it's on
TV, it's in movies,

345
00:15:47,714 --> 00:15:49,247
it's on practically every CD.

346
00:15:49,316 --> 00:15:50,476
You really don't get this,

347
00:15:50,517 --> 00:15:52,383
and rather than hear any more

348
00:15:52,452 --> 00:15:54,029
about the extent to
which you don't get it,

349
00:15:54,053 --> 00:15:55,986
I'll explain it to you.

350
00:15:57,324 --> 00:15:59,501
You know, this is the
oldest hate crime on Earth.

351
00:15:59,525 --> 00:16:01,892
This is the hatred of women.

352
00:16:01,961 --> 00:16:04,121
It's wrapped up in a
thing called harassment.

353
00:16:04,164 --> 00:16:06,530
Okay, I get it, but please,

354
00:16:06,599 --> 00:16:08,243
don't let Mom go
over to Norton's house.

355
00:16:08,267 --> 00:16:10,634
Let me handle this,
I'm begging you.

356
00:16:10,703 --> 00:16:12,381
If either of you go over
there, this guy is just going

357
00:16:12,405 --> 00:16:14,905
to make me look like a big
baby and that's all I need.

358
00:16:14,974 --> 00:16:16,907
Well...

359
00:16:20,246 --> 00:16:23,814
Robbie and Cheryl, his fiancée,

360
00:16:23,883 --> 00:16:24,982
are in your office?

361
00:16:25,051 --> 00:16:26,228
I didn't have a
chance to tell you.

362
00:16:26,252 --> 00:16:28,652
That jerk has a fiancée?

363
00:16:28,721 --> 00:16:30,020
Yes, and it's not our daughter.

364
00:16:30,089 --> 00:16:31,934
Well, I hope you're not
planning on marrying them

365
00:16:31,958 --> 00:16:34,358
because we know how
Robbie Palmer treats women.

366
00:16:34,427 --> 00:16:36,427
Which could mean, of course,

367
00:16:36,496 --> 00:16:39,263
that he's just telling us
that he's getting married,

368
00:16:39,332 --> 00:16:41,766
so that we'll tell Mary
that he's getting married,

369
00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:45,036
so she can track him down
and tell him not to get married.

370
00:16:45,104 --> 00:16:47,304
I think the bride-to-be
looks a little too happy

371
00:16:47,373 --> 00:16:48,873
to be up to any scam.

372
00:16:48,942 --> 00:16:51,609
No, I... They want
to get married.

373
00:16:51,677 --> 00:16:53,054
Well then, she's
got to be pregnant

374
00:16:53,078 --> 00:16:54,523
because he's not
the marrying kind.

375
00:16:54,547 --> 00:16:56,847
Well, I've married
pregnant couples before,

376
00:16:56,916 --> 00:16:58,827
it's not the best way
to begin a marriage,

377
00:16:58,851 --> 00:17:00,062
but it's not the worst either.

378
00:17:00,086 --> 00:17:01,830
No, the worst place
to begin a marriage

379
00:17:01,854 --> 00:17:04,154
is with a partner who
has no respect for women.

380
00:17:04,223 --> 00:17:05,856
Maybe he's changed.

381
00:17:05,925 --> 00:17:07,558
You wouldn't marry the guy off

382
00:17:07,626 --> 00:17:09,738
just to keep him away from
our daughter, would you?

383
00:17:09,762 --> 00:17:11,695
Of course not.

384
00:17:13,032 --> 00:17:15,132
I shouldn't keep them waiting.

385
00:17:17,904 --> 00:17:20,070
Is this a good time?

386
00:17:20,139 --> 00:17:22,518
It's probably not going
to get any better today.

387
00:17:22,542 --> 00:17:24,541
Go.

388
00:17:28,314 --> 00:17:31,182
We'll get out of your way
as quickly as possible.

389
00:17:31,250 --> 00:17:32,695
May we please go to the concert?

390
00:17:32,719 --> 00:17:35,286
I don't know, you seem a
little young for a concert.

391
00:17:36,589 --> 00:17:38,422
Are you familiar with this band?

392
00:17:38,490 --> 00:17:41,726
Uh, 13 or 47 or 79 or whatever?

393
00:17:41,795 --> 00:17:43,060
I listened to the CD

394
00:17:43,129 --> 00:17:44,929
and there's nothing
harmful about the lyrics.

395
00:17:44,998 --> 00:17:47,264
Other than they say
the same thing over

396
00:17:47,333 --> 00:17:48,832
and over and over again.

397
00:17:48,901 --> 00:17:50,601
Well, what are the songs about?

398
00:17:50,670 --> 00:17:52,436
Love. Love?

399
00:17:52,504 --> 00:17:53,871
Right.

400
00:17:53,940 --> 00:17:56,139
It's really innocent.

401
00:17:56,208 --> 00:17:57,286
Their biggest hit is called

402
00:17:57,310 --> 00:17:58,776
"Puppy Me, Puppy You."

403
00:17:58,845 --> 00:18:01,712
It's about puppy
love, real puppy love.

404
00:18:01,781 --> 00:18:03,759
A Golden Retriever
puppy to be exact.

405
00:18:03,783 --> 00:18:05,750
Fine.

406
00:18:07,252 --> 00:18:08,519
But if it's a rough crowd,

407
00:18:08,588 --> 00:18:10,165
I want you to come
home immediately.

408
00:18:10,189 --> 00:18:12,269
I sincerely doubt it
will be a rough crowd.

409
00:18:13,025 --> 00:18:14,324
But, if it is,

410
00:18:14,393 --> 00:18:15,826
we'll be right out of there.

411
00:18:17,029 --> 00:18:18,462
Thank you, thank you, thank you.

412
00:18:18,530 --> 00:18:19,730
I've got to go get ready.

413
00:18:24,637 --> 00:18:26,148
Do you think Mary
still talks to Robbie?

414
00:18:26,172 --> 00:18:28,772
Mary doesn't talk to
me, so I don't know.

415
00:18:28,841 --> 00:18:30,921
Do you know that
Robbie's getting married?

416
00:18:32,545 --> 00:18:34,411
I knew you were listening.

417
00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,980
Sort of.

418
00:18:37,049 --> 00:18:38,916
How do you do it?

419
00:18:38,985 --> 00:18:42,586
How do you just get past
being called that name?

420
00:18:42,655 --> 00:18:44,955
And forget about it and go on?

421
00:18:45,024 --> 00:18:46,923
I told you, I don't like it,

422
00:18:46,992 --> 00:18:48,803
but I've just
become immune to it.

423
00:18:48,827 --> 00:18:50,761
Don't become immune to it,

424
00:18:50,830 --> 00:18:53,897
because it's wrong,
it's just wrong.

425
00:18:57,804 --> 00:18:59,937
Are you stacking
the CDs for the ORs?

426
00:19:00,005 --> 00:19:01,249
Yes, Dr. Walker, I am.

427
00:19:01,273 --> 00:19:03,173
I'm scheduled for
OR3 at 7:00 a.m.

428
00:19:03,242 --> 00:19:04,442
Put this in the mix.

429
00:19:04,510 --> 00:19:05,754
I listened on the way over here.

430
00:19:05,778 --> 00:19:06,877
It's great.

431
00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,214
Uh, hold on, Doc.

432
00:19:12,451 --> 00:19:14,163
I'm sorry, I can't help you out.

433
00:19:14,187 --> 00:19:15,187
Why not?

434
00:19:15,221 --> 00:19:16,587
Because I can't take

435
00:19:16,656 --> 00:19:17,833
responsibility for putting this

436
00:19:17,857 --> 00:19:19,268
into the consciousness
of the world,

437
00:19:19,292 --> 00:19:21,725
much less the subconsciousness
of some poor patient.

438
00:19:21,794 --> 00:19:24,139
If you want to hear that, you've
got to take care of it yourself.

439
00:19:24,163 --> 00:19:27,064
You're kind of making
yourself not needed, aren't you?

440
00:19:27,133 --> 00:19:30,200
And if you're not needed,
well, what happens to your job?

441
00:19:30,269 --> 00:19:32,870
That was a threat, wasn't it?

442
00:19:32,939 --> 00:19:34,805
It's okay.

443
00:19:34,874 --> 00:19:38,209
Really it is, because I am
certain, absolutely certain,

444
00:19:38,277 --> 00:19:39,754
that if it came
down to firing me

445
00:19:39,778 --> 00:19:41,957
for refusing to play this music,

446
00:19:41,981 --> 00:19:43,826
that nobody on the
hospital board would do it.

447
00:19:43,850 --> 00:19:45,560
How dare you
talk to me like that?

448
00:19:45,584 --> 00:19:47,518
How dare I not be afraid of you?

449
00:19:47,587 --> 00:19:49,431
Because I'm right
and you know it.

450
00:19:49,455 --> 00:19:52,122
I would have thought that
you liked this type of music.

451
00:19:52,191 --> 00:19:54,525
Why, because I'm black?

452
00:19:56,596 --> 00:19:58,740
Well, that's a very wrong
assumption, Dr. Walker,

453
00:19:58,764 --> 00:20:00,197
and prejudicial.

454
00:20:00,266 --> 00:20:01,765
Which doesn't surprise me at all

455
00:20:01,834 --> 00:20:03,812
because when a man
listens to this kind of music,

456
00:20:03,836 --> 00:20:05,936
it means he has a
prejudice against women.

457
00:20:06,004 --> 00:20:07,438
And men who hate women,

458
00:20:07,506 --> 00:20:10,240
hate a lot of other people,
including minorities.

459
00:20:10,309 --> 00:20:13,410
I think that's a wrong
assumption on your part.

460
00:20:13,479 --> 00:20:15,179
I don't hate anyone.

461
00:20:15,248 --> 00:20:17,314
That CD has sold
millions of copies.

462
00:20:17,383 --> 00:20:19,884
You think everyone who
listens to it hates women.

463
00:20:19,952 --> 00:20:22,019
Yes, I do. Really?

464
00:20:22,088 --> 00:20:24,254
Yes, really and truly.

465
00:20:24,323 --> 00:20:27,458
Okay.

466
00:20:27,527 --> 00:20:29,560
Okay, maybe you're right.

467
00:20:29,628 --> 00:20:31,295
I never really thought about it.

468
00:20:31,364 --> 00:20:33,297
I apologize.

469
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:35,832
I'm under a lot of pressure

470
00:20:35,901 --> 00:20:38,436
and... there's no
justifying it really.

471
00:20:38,504 --> 00:20:41,305
I apologize. Apology accepted.

472
00:20:41,374 --> 00:20:43,134
Maybe I can buy you a
cup of coffee sometime.

473
00:20:50,316 --> 00:20:51,960
I overheard you
talking to Dr. Walker

474
00:20:51,984 --> 00:20:53,629
and I was wondering if I might

475
00:20:53,653 --> 00:20:55,263
buy that cup of
coffee for you myself?

476
00:20:55,287 --> 00:20:56,520
Maybe when I get off work?

477
00:20:56,589 --> 00:20:58,021
No, you may not.

478
00:20:59,859 --> 00:21:02,759
But I'd be more than
happy to buy you one.

479
00:21:04,464 --> 00:21:05,896
Um, my name is John Hamilton.

480
00:21:05,965 --> 00:21:07,731
I know, I've seen
you here before.

481
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,400
I've asked around about you.

482
00:21:10,469 --> 00:21:12,302
Um, I'm Pricilla
Carter. I'm a volunteer.

483
00:21:12,371 --> 00:21:14,871
So what time would
you like that coffee?

484
00:21:14,940 --> 00:21:16,618
Um, afternoon
shift is over at 4:00,

485
00:21:16,642 --> 00:21:17,941
I usually take a break then.

486
00:21:18,010 --> 00:21:20,610
Okay, so I'll meet you
in the cafeteria at 4:00.

487
00:21:22,015 --> 00:21:23,948
Okay.

488
00:21:29,355 --> 00:21:30,887
Oh, Heather. Hey.

489
00:21:35,027 --> 00:21:36,160
That your girlfriend?

490
00:21:36,228 --> 00:21:37,694
Uh, I just met her.

491
00:21:37,763 --> 00:21:39,341
But it would be nice
to have a girlfriend.

492
00:21:39,365 --> 00:21:40,464
How are you doing?

493
00:21:40,533 --> 00:21:41,899
Really well, thanks.

494
00:21:41,968 --> 00:21:43,067
Matt got your note.

495
00:21:43,136 --> 00:21:44,768
I was hoping I'd find him here.

496
00:21:44,837 --> 00:21:46,648
No, he didn't make
the schedule today.

497
00:21:46,672 --> 00:21:48,050
Matt has a lot
of studying to do,

498
00:21:48,074 --> 00:21:49,417
so he's probably
at home right now.

499
00:21:49,441 --> 00:21:50,975
So if you want to go over,

500
00:21:51,043 --> 00:21:52,488
I can give him a call
and make sure he's there.

501
00:21:52,512 --> 00:21:54,311
I just came from there.

502
00:21:54,380 --> 00:21:56,191
But if you talk to
him, could you tell him

503
00:21:56,215 --> 00:21:58,815
I'll be dropping by
again around 7:00?

504
00:21:58,884 --> 00:22:00,496
I have something
I want to tell him.

505
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:01,752
Okay.

506
00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:12,930
Oh, what's going on?

507
00:22:12,999 --> 00:22:14,497
I didn't see you come in.

508
00:22:14,566 --> 00:22:16,211
He came over to pick me up.

509
00:22:17,870 --> 00:22:20,637
I hadn't really pictured you
leaving the house quite yet.

510
00:22:20,707 --> 00:22:22,172
I'm not sure I pictured you

511
00:22:22,241 --> 00:22:23,418
leaving the house
before Christmas.

512
00:22:23,442 --> 00:22:25,987
Mom, you have to
let me talk to Norton.

513
00:22:26,011 --> 00:22:28,257
And I want to talk
to him over at Matt's

514
00:22:28,281 --> 00:22:31,715
where it's just the guys
and no parents around.

515
00:22:31,784 --> 00:22:33,095
Well, isn't that
what went on today,

516
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,930
"just the guys and
no parents around"?

517
00:22:34,954 --> 00:22:36,320
Look, let him talk to him.

518
00:22:36,389 --> 00:22:37,688
If you and Dad go over there,

519
00:22:37,757 --> 00:22:39,334
you're just going to make
him look bad in school.

520
00:22:39,358 --> 00:22:42,059
I feel bad about what
he did, it was wrong.

521
00:22:42,128 --> 00:22:44,305
And I want to tell
him how wrong it was.

522
00:22:44,329 --> 00:22:46,196
Me, not my Mommy or my Daddy.

523
00:22:46,265 --> 00:22:47,909
You guys are just
dying to embarrass me.

524
00:22:47,933 --> 00:22:49,410
The only reason
you're talking to me is

525
00:22:49,434 --> 00:22:50,779
'cause you don't
want me to talk to him.

526
00:22:50,803 --> 00:22:52,163
That doesn't make
you the man here.

527
00:22:52,204 --> 00:22:53,414
You have to want to talk to him

528
00:22:53,438 --> 00:22:54,804
because what he did was wrong.

529
00:22:54,873 --> 00:22:56,173
Fine, it was wrong.

530
00:22:56,241 --> 00:22:58,642
But I want to know that
<i>he</i> knows that it was wrong.

531
00:22:58,711 --> 00:23:00,177
I want an apology.

532
00:23:00,246 --> 00:23:02,757
I have to get him to apologize?

533
00:23:02,781 --> 00:23:05,182
Yes, and it'd better
be a real apology.

534
00:23:08,153 --> 00:23:10,621
Those the new
pants I bought you?

535
00:23:10,690 --> 00:23:12,155
Yeah, thanks.

536
00:23:12,224 --> 00:23:13,384
Don't they look great, huh?

537
00:23:13,426 --> 00:23:15,225
It's kind of a shame
wasting them on us.

538
00:23:15,294 --> 00:23:17,054
You know, those pants
need to be dry-cleaned.

539
00:23:18,397 --> 00:23:19,541
What are you smiling about?

540
00:23:19,565 --> 00:23:21,765
Did Dad tell you
Heather left me a note?

541
00:23:21,834 --> 00:23:22,999
She wants to talk to me.

542
00:23:23,068 --> 00:23:24,646
No. He didn't tell you that?

543
00:23:24,670 --> 00:23:27,938
No, but he didn't even tell me
that Mary's old boyfriend Robbie

544
00:23:28,007 --> 00:23:29,885
wants to marry his
old girlfriend Cheryl,

545
00:23:29,909 --> 00:23:32,053
and that they want
your father to tie the knot.

546
00:23:32,077 --> 00:23:33,443
Robbie's getting married?

547
00:23:33,512 --> 00:23:35,992
Unless your father comes through
and does the right thing, yes.

548
00:23:37,582 --> 00:23:38,827
I don't want to sound redundant.

549
00:23:38,851 --> 00:23:40,851
I know I probably said this

550
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,664
like a half a dozen
times already,

551
00:23:42,688 --> 00:23:47,057
but now that I think of
it, it actually is a classic.

552
00:23:47,126 --> 00:23:48,258
Marriage is a big step.

553
00:23:48,327 --> 00:23:51,862
Yes, a step in
the right direction.

554
00:23:51,931 --> 00:23:53,764
Still, it is a big step.

555
00:23:55,500 --> 00:23:56,611
It is.

556
00:23:56,635 --> 00:23:59,081
I'm just agreeing
with the Reverend.

557
00:23:59,105 --> 00:24:01,438
Robbie and I have been
together for a long time.

558
00:24:01,507 --> 00:24:02,706
We love each other.

559
00:24:02,775 --> 00:24:04,241
It's time we were a family.

560
00:24:04,310 --> 00:24:06,087
Well, it's nice
to have a family.

561
00:24:06,111 --> 00:24:07,544
My family split up years ago

562
00:24:07,612 --> 00:24:09,257
and my mom lives
with her boyfriend.

563
00:24:09,281 --> 00:24:09,946
And you live?

564
00:24:10,015 --> 00:24:11,215
I live in the apartment

565
00:24:11,283 --> 00:24:12,650
I've had since I was 16

566
00:24:12,718 --> 00:24:14,029
and my mother's boyfriend
wanted me out of the house.

567
00:24:14,053 --> 00:24:17,421
And the two of you will
be living... at her apartment

568
00:24:17,490 --> 00:24:19,489
or what, with Robbie's mom?

569
00:24:19,558 --> 00:24:21,024
Robbie's mom just took off.

570
00:24:23,228 --> 00:24:26,430
Robbie... your mom took off?

571
00:24:26,499 --> 00:24:28,343
We were having
financial trouble.

572
00:24:28,367 --> 00:24:29,566
She moved to Florida.

573
00:24:29,635 --> 00:24:32,069
My oldest brother is
in school down there.

574
00:24:32,138 --> 00:24:33,178
What about the house?

575
00:24:33,238 --> 00:24:34,572
The bank came after her.

576
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:35,939
She gave it up.

577
00:24:36,008 --> 00:24:37,208
So where are you living now?

578
00:24:39,712 --> 00:24:42,446
Oh.

579
00:24:42,515 --> 00:24:44,755
Is that why you're in such
a hurry to get married?

580
00:24:44,783 --> 00:24:46,750
Because you're living together?

581
00:24:50,222 --> 00:24:52,856
Any answer will do.

582
00:24:52,924 --> 00:24:55,059
Look, I'm not here to judge you.

583
00:24:55,127 --> 00:24:56,738
I'm just trying to
get to know you.

584
00:24:56,762 --> 00:24:57,962
I don't have to live there.

585
00:24:58,030 --> 00:24:58,962
I have a job.

586
00:24:59,031 --> 00:25:00,463
But he likes living there.

587
00:25:00,532 --> 00:25:02,399
Is there any particular reason

588
00:25:02,468 --> 00:25:04,668
why you wanted me
to marry the two of you?

589
00:25:04,736 --> 00:25:06,681
It's not like we know
a lot of ministers

590
00:25:06,705 --> 00:25:08,505
and I want a church wedding.

591
00:25:08,574 --> 00:25:10,051
Robbie said he
thought you'd do it.

592
00:25:10,075 --> 00:25:13,877
And it's just that, well,

593
00:25:13,946 --> 00:25:15,957
you already know
what kind of guy I am,

594
00:25:15,981 --> 00:25:18,141
so I wouldn't have to
explain that to anyone.

595
00:25:20,786 --> 00:25:22,864
Is there something
you're not telling me?

596
00:25:22,888 --> 00:25:24,722
No.

597
00:25:24,790 --> 00:25:27,024
Okay.

598
00:25:27,092 --> 00:25:28,092
Well, um...

599
00:25:31,364 --> 00:25:33,364
Cheryl and me...

600
00:25:35,101 --> 00:25:38,969
Cheryl and I...

601
00:25:39,038 --> 00:25:42,706
Well, uh...

602
00:25:42,775 --> 00:25:45,335
we're going to have a baby.

603
00:26:02,761 --> 00:26:04,160
We're leaving!

604
00:26:04,229 --> 00:26:05,229
Have a good time.

605
00:26:05,263 --> 00:26:07,631
Remember the rules.

606
00:26:12,104 --> 00:26:13,704
W-Why are you wearing that?

607
00:26:13,773 --> 00:26:14,893
Why are you wearing<i> that?</i>

608
00:26:17,610 --> 00:26:18,842
Is that Happy's collar?

609
00:26:18,911 --> 00:26:19,911
I borrowed it.

610
00:26:19,945 --> 00:26:20,945
I'll give it back.

611
00:26:22,915 --> 00:26:24,013
No!

612
00:26:24,082 --> 00:26:26,060
No? You've got to be kidding.

613
00:26:26,084 --> 00:26:27,317
Me? Yes, you.

614
00:26:27,386 --> 00:26:30,453
You can't go out
in that, that, w...

615
00:26:30,522 --> 00:26:33,001
Costume.

616
00:26:33,025 --> 00:26:34,290
Who are you dressed up as?

617
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,359
I think she's
dressed like the band.

618
00:26:36,428 --> 00:26:37,560
Now can we go?

619
00:26:37,629 --> 00:26:38,639
We're going to be late.

620
00:26:38,663 --> 00:26:40,864
This whole day is
making my head hurt.

621
00:26:40,932 --> 00:26:43,044
I wasn't going to let her
out of the house like that.

622
00:26:43,068 --> 00:26:44,579
Thank you. Look,

623
00:26:44,603 --> 00:26:47,571
I volunteered for this
evening and I'm responsible.

624
00:26:47,639 --> 00:26:48,938
Please, I'll take her upstairs

625
00:26:49,007 --> 00:26:51,374
and explain to her why she
can't dress like that and...

626
00:26:51,443 --> 00:26:53,743
But everyone is going
to be dressed like this.

627
00:26:53,812 --> 00:26:56,379
All the girls going to the
concert dress like this.

628
00:26:56,448 --> 00:26:58,093
You're the one who's
going to look weird.

629
00:26:58,117 --> 00:26:59,516
I'm not changing.

630
00:26:59,585 --> 00:27:02,919
You are changing, first your
clothes and then your attitude.

631
00:27:13,031 --> 00:27:17,234
What are you going
to say to Simon?

632
00:27:17,303 --> 00:27:19,747
I'm going to tell Simon
that he needs to have a word

633
00:27:19,771 --> 00:27:22,116
with his mother about the
way she treats his friends.

634
00:27:22,140 --> 00:27:24,386
Then I'm going to try to get
his sister's phone number.

635
00:27:28,714 --> 00:27:31,014
So you don't think this
music has anything to do

636
00:27:31,082 --> 00:27:32,694
with the way these
guys act around women?

637
00:27:32,718 --> 00:27:34,618
It's just music.

638
00:27:34,687 --> 00:27:36,531
I swear Norton was
just kidding around.

639
00:27:36,555 --> 00:27:37,921
It was supposed to be a joke.

640
00:27:37,990 --> 00:27:39,601
He just made a
bad choice in words.

641
00:27:39,625 --> 00:27:41,035
He wasn't going to try
to teach Mom anything.

642
00:27:41,059 --> 00:27:41,992
Come on.

643
00:27:42,061 --> 00:27:43,427
So e-explain it to me.

644
00:27:43,495 --> 00:27:44,428
What's the joke?

645
00:27:44,496 --> 00:27:46,029
No, seriously,

646
00:27:46,098 --> 00:27:48,431
what's funny about
intimidating or humiliating

647
00:27:48,500 --> 00:27:50,779
Mom or Lucy or any other
woman with words like that?

648
00:27:50,803 --> 00:27:52,002
Who are you?

649
00:27:52,071 --> 00:27:53,003
Tipper Gore?

650
00:27:53,071 --> 00:27:54,671
What's wrong with Tipper Gore?

651
00:27:54,739 --> 00:27:57,874
You know, I happen
to think she's right.

652
00:27:57,943 --> 00:27:58,875
I-I do.

653
00:27:58,944 --> 00:28:00,711
A-As crazy as that sounds, I do.

654
00:28:00,780 --> 00:28:02,824
I mean, you can't print
the lyrics to these songs,

655
00:28:02,848 --> 00:28:04,214
so how can you sell the stuff?

656
00:28:04,283 --> 00:28:06,761
I would have been better
off with Mom and Dad.

657
00:28:06,785 --> 00:28:08,452
Yeah, probably.

658
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,632
When did you get
so conservative?

659
00:28:10,656 --> 00:28:12,889
Oh, maybe after watching a
long line of battered women

660
00:28:12,958 --> 00:28:14,524
come in and out of
the emergency room.

661
00:28:14,592 --> 00:28:17,727
But that has nothing
to do with this music.

662
00:28:17,796 --> 00:28:19,429
This music never hurt anyone.

663
00:28:19,497 --> 00:28:21,464
You're kidding yourself.

664
00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:22,944
Millions of guys
listen to this music.

665
00:28:22,968 --> 00:28:25,113
Do you know how many
copies of that CD were sold?

666
00:28:25,137 --> 00:28:26,503
No, I-I don't, and I don't care,

667
00:28:26,571 --> 00:28:27,848
and I don't hate
anyone personally.

668
00:28:27,872 --> 00:28:30,073
I don't care to be part of
some larger group hate

669
00:28:30,142 --> 00:28:31,441
against half the population.

670
00:28:31,510 --> 00:28:32,842
You say this is about hate?

671
00:28:32,911 --> 00:28:35,023
The guys who make that
CD, they say it's about love.

672
00:28:35,047 --> 00:28:36,946
Have you ever seen

673
00:28:37,015 --> 00:28:38,095
these guys in concert?

674
00:28:38,149 --> 00:28:40,250
Th-There are black
people, white people,

675
00:28:40,319 --> 00:28:41,251
all kinds of people.

676
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:42,619
Again, you're kidding yourself.

677
00:28:42,688 --> 00:28:44,454
This is about anything but love.

678
00:28:44,523 --> 00:28:46,501
I mean, there's no
justification for making it seem

679
00:28:46,525 --> 00:28:49,859
as if any segment of the
population is less than human.

680
00:28:49,928 --> 00:28:51,327
Th-That's what this music does,

681
00:28:51,397 --> 00:28:54,664
and when you take that idea
and you say it over and over,

682
00:28:54,733 --> 00:28:57,701
that idea becomes part of
the overall consciousness.

683
00:28:57,769 --> 00:28:58,849
It's propaganda, Simon.

684
00:28:58,904 --> 00:29:00,236
That's how propaganda works.

685
00:29:00,305 --> 00:29:02,472
And the fact that it's
propaganda in song

686
00:29:02,540 --> 00:29:03,785
and people are making
millions of dollars

687
00:29:03,809 --> 00:29:05,219
off of it doesn't
mean that it's right.

688
00:29:05,243 --> 00:29:08,145
Yeah, but right or wrong,
this is about free speech.

689
00:29:08,214 --> 00:29:09,791
What happened to
the First Amendment?

690
00:29:09,815 --> 00:29:11,515
What happened to it?

691
00:29:11,584 --> 00:29:14,184
<i>Schenck v. the United
States,</i> that's what happened.

692
00:29:14,253 --> 00:29:15,864
You can't yell fire
if there isn't one.

693
00:29:15,888 --> 00:29:16,820
There's no fire, Simon.

694
00:29:16,889 --> 00:29:18,021
There's no enemy.

695
00:29:18,090 --> 00:29:20,168
Women aren't the enemy,
ignorance is the enemy.

696
00:29:20,192 --> 00:29:21,192
I know that.

697
00:29:21,226 --> 00:29:22,158
No, no, I-I don't,

698
00:29:22,227 --> 00:29:23,593
I don't think you<i> do</i> know that.

699
00:29:23,662 --> 00:29:25,506
And if you have no
understanding of the issue,

700
00:29:25,530 --> 00:29:27,008
what's your strategy
for getting this Norton

701
00:29:27,032 --> 00:29:28,866
to apologize to Mom and Lucy?

702
00:29:28,934 --> 00:29:30,300
How are you going to do that

703
00:29:30,368 --> 00:29:32,380
when you're really Norton's
protector and advocate?

704
00:29:32,404 --> 00:29:33,336
I am not.

705
00:29:33,405 --> 00:29:35,338
I-I barely know him.

706
00:29:35,407 --> 00:29:37,874
I just don't want to ruin my
reputation in high school.

707
00:29:37,943 --> 00:29:40,844
Exactly what do you
want your reputation to be?

708
00:29:42,948 --> 00:29:44,815
♪ Yo, Dirty, how you feel? ♪

709
00:29:44,883 --> 00:29:46,382
♪ I feel like gettin' ill ♪

710
00:29:46,451 --> 00:29:48,651
♪ Then won't you let
your nine milli spill? ♪

711
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,388
The concert starts
in 15 minutes.

712
00:29:51,456 --> 00:29:53,068
We can still get
there if you want.

713
00:29:53,092 --> 00:29:54,357
I'm not changing.

714
00:29:54,426 --> 00:29:56,326
Fine, don't change,

715
00:29:56,395 --> 00:29:58,955
but you're too young
to dress like that.

716
00:29:59,431 --> 00:30:00,997
Let me give it a shot.

717
00:30:01,066 --> 00:30:03,733
I don't want Ruthie
to miss her concert.

718
00:30:07,772 --> 00:30:10,741
I cannot let you go to the
concert dressed like this

719
00:30:10,809 --> 00:30:13,509
even if every single girl
there is dressed the same way.

720
00:30:13,578 --> 00:30:15,478
You don't understand.

721
00:30:15,547 --> 00:30:16,691
What don't I understand?

722
00:30:16,715 --> 00:30:18,515
It's fun to dress like this.

723
00:30:18,584 --> 00:30:19,584
It's sexy.

724
00:30:21,053 --> 00:30:23,687
What is sexy?

725
00:30:24,990 --> 00:30:26,835
Do you think you
should try to be sexy

726
00:30:26,859 --> 00:30:28,324
if you don't know what sexy is?

727
00:30:30,729 --> 00:30:33,040
Ruthie, I don't think you're
too young to dress like this.

728
00:30:33,064 --> 00:30:34,976
I think you're too<i>
smart</i> to dress like this.

729
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,833
Oh, boy, here it comes.

730
00:30:36,902 --> 00:30:39,335
A lecture launched
by a compliment.

731
00:30:39,404 --> 00:30:40,804
See how smart that is.

732
00:30:40,873 --> 00:30:41,804
What a great observation.

733
00:30:41,874 --> 00:30:42,884
Luce, come on, sit down.

734
00:30:42,908 --> 00:30:45,141
This is for you, too.

735
00:30:49,981 --> 00:30:53,816
I think you should be able
to dress any way you want.

736
00:30:53,885 --> 00:30:55,330
Your hair, your
makeup, your clothes

737
00:30:55,354 --> 00:30:57,354
should be an expression
of who you are.

738
00:30:57,422 --> 00:30:59,423
In an ideal world,

739
00:30:59,491 --> 00:31:03,460
you should be able to walk
down a dark alley late at night

740
00:31:03,529 --> 00:31:05,106
wearing a tube
top and a miniskirt

741
00:31:05,130 --> 00:31:07,297
if that's what you want.

742
00:31:07,366 --> 00:31:08,665
You're both beautiful girls.

743
00:31:09,968 --> 00:31:12,268
And you both have
beautiful bodies.

744
00:31:12,337 --> 00:31:14,137
However...

745
00:31:14,205 --> 00:31:19,109
And this is a big
however, so pay attention...

746
00:31:19,178 --> 00:31:20,977
This is not an ideal world

747
00:31:21,046 --> 00:31:24,614
and you cannot walk down
a dark alley late at night

748
00:31:24,683 --> 00:31:28,351
in a tube top and a miniskirt...

749
00:31:28,420 --> 00:31:30,520
any more than you
can go to a concert

750
00:31:30,589 --> 00:31:32,656
wearing a dog
collar and a bikini.

751
00:31:37,395 --> 00:31:41,964
There are some men who
think of women as things.

752
00:31:42,033 --> 00:31:43,966
To them, we all...

753
00:31:44,035 --> 00:31:46,736
look alike, sound
alike, behave alike

754
00:31:46,805 --> 00:31:49,372
because, to them,
we are things...

755
00:31:49,441 --> 00:31:51,774
Things to be owned,
things to be dominated,

756
00:31:51,843 --> 00:31:54,644
things to be used and abused

757
00:31:54,713 --> 00:31:58,815
because we are less than they
are, we are less than human.

758
00:32:00,685 --> 00:32:02,618
Those men have
all sorts of excuses

759
00:32:02,687 --> 00:32:04,921
for their bad
behavior towards us.

760
00:32:04,990 --> 00:32:08,191
They saw the bad
behavior at the movies,

761
00:32:08,260 --> 00:32:09,459
they are animals

762
00:32:09,527 --> 00:32:12,262
and their bad behavior
is part of their nature,

763
00:32:12,330 --> 00:32:16,233
uh, we are worthless and
their bad behavior is their right...

764
00:32:16,301 --> 00:32:18,802
Every excuse in the world...

765
00:32:18,871 --> 00:32:23,339
But these excuses did not begin
with bad TV or movies or music

766
00:32:23,408 --> 00:32:25,675
or tube tops and miniskirts.

767
00:32:25,744 --> 00:32:28,044
These excuses have been around

768
00:32:28,113 --> 00:32:31,815
probably since the first
man tried to explain away

769
00:32:31,884 --> 00:32:35,518
his bad behavior
or be punished for it.

770
00:32:35,587 --> 00:32:39,856
Blaming the way we dress
for their bad behavior is wrong.

771
00:32:41,526 --> 00:32:43,293
It's also wrong

772
00:32:43,361 --> 00:32:47,897
for you to take away
your own individuality

773
00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:52,535
by mimicking what you see
instead of being who you are.

774
00:32:52,604 --> 00:32:56,572
Be brave, be you.

775
00:32:56,642 --> 00:32:57,642
Be an individual.

776
00:33:00,979 --> 00:33:02,556
You know, I haven't
heard anything yet

777
00:33:02,580 --> 00:33:05,140
that would make me want
to apologize if I were Norton.

778
00:33:09,988 --> 00:33:11,821
What's with you?

779
00:33:11,890 --> 00:33:13,790
I just had a date
with Ms. Right.

780
00:33:15,293 --> 00:33:16,404
I'm not kidding you.

781
00:33:16,428 --> 00:33:19,429
I just met my future bride.

782
00:33:19,497 --> 00:33:21,208
Uh-huh, well... I
met mine last week

783
00:33:21,232 --> 00:33:23,277
and this week, I don't
even know where she is.

784
00:33:23,301 --> 00:33:25,869
Well, I have an address,
a phone number,

785
00:33:25,937 --> 00:33:27,937
and I'm taking her
to church tomorrow.

786
00:33:30,609 --> 00:33:32,709
Did I interrupt something?

787
00:33:32,778 --> 00:33:35,212
Simon's friend
Norton is coming over.

788
00:33:36,682 --> 00:33:38,848
Uh-oh. Uh-oh, what?

789
00:33:38,917 --> 00:33:41,328
I forgot to call you and let you
know Heather's dropping by.

790
00:33:41,352 --> 00:33:42,285
When?

791
00:33:42,354 --> 00:33:43,587
How do you know this?

792
00:33:43,655 --> 00:33:46,355
I bumped into her right
after I bumped into Ms. Right.

793
00:33:46,424 --> 00:33:48,068
And she should be
here around 7:00.

794
00:33:48,092 --> 00:33:50,092
Uh, Norton should
be here around 7:00.

795
00:34:00,672 --> 00:34:04,018
Back off before I hurt him.

796
00:34:04,042 --> 00:34:06,955
Do something before
this idiot hurts someone.

797
00:34:06,979 --> 00:34:08,856
These guys tried to attack me.

798
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:09,920
No, it's, it's okay.

799
00:34:18,056 --> 00:34:20,423
Simon, my man,

800
00:34:20,492 --> 00:34:21,903
we were just
having a little fun.

801
00:34:21,927 --> 00:34:22,937
Let me up.

802
00:34:22,961 --> 00:34:24,194
I don't what happened.

803
00:34:24,262 --> 00:34:25,429
I got out of my car

804
00:34:25,497 --> 00:34:27,697
and all of a sudden,
they came up to my face

805
00:34:27,766 --> 00:34:29,176
and started pulling
on my clothes and...

806
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,466
What is wrong with them?

807
00:34:30,535 --> 00:34:32,102
You are going to
go over to my house

808
00:34:32,171 --> 00:34:33,970
and you are going to
apologize to my mother

809
00:34:34,039 --> 00:34:35,405
and my sister for what you did.

810
00:34:35,473 --> 00:34:36,917
But not before you
apologize to Heather.

811
00:34:36,941 --> 00:34:38,274
That's my brother's friend.

812
00:34:38,343 --> 00:34:40,010
She's deaf, man. How could you?

813
00:34:40,078 --> 00:34:41,923
I didn't know she was deaf.

814
00:34:41,947 --> 00:34:43,413
Lighten up.

815
00:34:43,481 --> 00:34:45,314
You knew she was
a person didn't you?

816
00:34:47,018 --> 00:34:49,653
Looks like the apologies
are going to have to wait.

817
00:34:57,095 --> 00:34:58,861
These guys are attacking me.

818
00:34:58,930 --> 00:35:00,663
Nice try, sonny.

819
00:35:00,732 --> 00:35:02,098
One of the
neighbors called it in.

820
00:35:02,167 --> 00:35:03,600
She has it all on video.

821
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,273
Shh, babies sleeping.

822
00:35:10,342 --> 00:35:11,474
Come in.

823
00:35:11,543 --> 00:35:13,143
Thanks, but no thanks.

824
00:35:13,211 --> 00:35:15,612
What, is Robbie with you?

825
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,113
No.

826
00:35:17,182 --> 00:35:18,915
I wanted to talk to you alone.

827
00:35:18,984 --> 00:35:20,828
And then maybe you
should talk to Robbie alone.

828
00:35:20,852 --> 00:35:22,184
Okay.

829
00:35:22,253 --> 00:35:23,386
I'm not pregnant.

830
00:35:23,455 --> 00:35:25,933
I thought I was, but I'm not.

831
00:35:25,957 --> 00:35:28,558
I've known for a few days,
but I don't want to tell Robbie

832
00:35:28,627 --> 00:35:30,547
because I know
he won't marry me.

833
00:35:32,263 --> 00:35:33,396
I guess he has to know.

834
00:35:33,465 --> 00:35:34,731
But, remember,

835
00:35:34,799 --> 00:35:36,844
if you don't marry us,
he'll end up with Mary.

836
00:35:36,868 --> 00:35:39,428
He thinks he loves her.

837
00:35:39,471 --> 00:35:41,738
But I know he loves me, too.

838
00:35:41,806 --> 00:35:44,073
And I love him.

839
00:35:44,142 --> 00:35:46,476
I really, really love him.

840
00:35:46,544 --> 00:35:48,377
I know you do.

841
00:35:48,446 --> 00:35:50,780
Otherwise, you wouldn't
be telling me this.

842
00:36:05,963 --> 00:36:07,463
Are you sure you're okay?

843
00:36:07,532 --> 00:36:08,864
I'm fine.

844
00:36:08,933 --> 00:36:11,112
It wasn't the first time
I had to defend myself.

845
00:36:11,136 --> 00:36:12,246
But I'm happy you came

846
00:36:12,270 --> 00:36:13,515
out of the building
when you did.

847
00:36:13,539 --> 00:36:15,549
Well, it looked as if you
had everything under control.

848
00:36:15,573 --> 00:36:18,307
Mom thought it was a good
idea for me to take some classes

849
00:36:18,376 --> 00:36:20,220
back in high school
and she was right.

850
00:36:20,244 --> 00:36:21,244
What?

851
00:36:21,279 --> 00:36:22,479
I never knew that about you.

852
00:36:22,547 --> 00:36:23,991
You know, that you
knew self-defense.

853
00:36:24,015 --> 00:36:26,415
There is a lot you
don't know about me.

854
00:36:28,820 --> 00:36:30,720
New pants?

855
00:36:30,789 --> 00:36:32,055
Uh, yes.

856
00:36:32,123 --> 00:36:33,390
My mom bought them.

857
00:36:33,458 --> 00:36:35,025
They look good.

858
00:36:35,093 --> 00:36:36,959
Ah.

859
00:36:37,028 --> 00:36:40,930
I came over here tonight
to tell you something.

860
00:36:42,634 --> 00:36:44,834
I'm dating someone.

861
00:36:44,903 --> 00:36:47,803
And before anyone else
told you I thought I should.

862
00:36:47,872 --> 00:36:50,740
Before anyone like
my mom told me.

863
00:36:50,809 --> 00:36:52,241
She doesn't know.

864
00:36:52,310 --> 00:36:55,645
But I was afraid she would
see us or you would see us.

865
00:36:55,713 --> 00:36:57,080
Why is that?

866
00:36:57,148 --> 00:36:59,149
He's a professor at Crawford.

867
00:36:59,217 --> 00:37:00,383
Oh.

868
00:37:00,452 --> 00:37:02,452
Is that ethical?

869
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:03,620
I mean...

870
00:37:03,688 --> 00:37:04,987
It's fun.

871
00:37:05,056 --> 00:37:06,656
Right.

872
00:37:06,724 --> 00:37:08,657
Really, he's a nice man.

873
00:37:08,726 --> 00:37:11,161
He's a little older than me,
but he's a very nice man.

874
00:37:11,229 --> 00:37:12,428
And I'm not in his class.

875
00:37:12,497 --> 00:37:13,696
He just teaches there.

876
00:37:15,500 --> 00:37:18,334
I hope the new
pants weren't for me.

877
00:37:18,403 --> 00:37:21,070
No, no, they're just new pants.

878
00:37:21,139 --> 00:37:24,741
You were the best-dressed
man at the police station.

879
00:37:24,809 --> 00:37:26,109
Uh, thanks.

880
00:37:27,912 --> 00:37:30,180
I never liked that
kind of music.

881
00:37:30,248 --> 00:37:31,847
But I never really thought

882
00:37:31,916 --> 00:37:33,327
about how much it
affects our society

883
00:37:33,351 --> 00:37:34,450
until I saw those tapes

884
00:37:34,519 --> 00:37:36,219
of the young women
being attacked

885
00:37:36,288 --> 00:37:37,486
in Central Park last summer.

886
00:37:37,555 --> 00:37:40,489
I felt so bad.

887
00:37:40,558 --> 00:37:42,491
For them.

888
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,493
For my sisters, for my mother,

889
00:37:44,562 --> 00:37:45,895
for women in general.

890
00:37:45,964 --> 00:37:47,563
For all of us.

891
00:37:47,633 --> 00:37:48,976
That kind of
humiliation and assault

892
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,633
happens every
day in this country.

893
00:37:50,701 --> 00:37:52,635
We hear it on the news.

894
00:37:52,704 --> 00:37:54,003
We read it in the newspapers,

895
00:37:54,072 --> 00:37:56,238
but we never see it
up close and personal

896
00:37:56,307 --> 00:37:57,606
like those tapes show it.

897
00:37:57,675 --> 00:37:58,942
And you have to ask...

898
00:37:59,010 --> 00:38:00,510
Who was making the tapes?

899
00:38:00,578 --> 00:38:01,956
Why? Where were the police?

900
00:38:01,980 --> 00:38:04,013
Why didn't anybody
stop those guys?

901
00:38:04,082 --> 00:38:06,015
Then I realized...

902
00:38:06,084 --> 00:38:07,851
those guys are everywhere.

903
00:38:07,919 --> 00:38:09,352
They're all over the world,

904
00:38:09,421 --> 00:38:11,187
and as the world gets smaller

905
00:38:11,255 --> 00:38:14,190
the hatred of women
seems to be getting bigger.

906
00:38:14,259 --> 00:38:18,027
Everywhere you look there's
men trying to prove their manhood

907
00:38:18,096 --> 00:38:19,574
by how much they
can oppress women.

908
00:38:19,598 --> 00:38:23,032
I thought we were past all that.

909
00:38:23,100 --> 00:38:24,946
But I guess we're
back to all of that.

910
00:38:24,970 --> 00:38:26,814
The only way I
know how to stop it

911
00:38:26,838 --> 00:38:28,604
is to voice my concerns about it

912
00:38:28,673 --> 00:38:31,374
and not support that type
of mentality in any way.

913
00:38:33,077 --> 00:38:36,011
I don't buy music with
lyrics that are oppressive.

914
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,680
It's wrong, Simon.

915
00:38:37,749 --> 00:38:39,048
It's wrong for all of us.

916
00:39:02,507 --> 00:39:04,485
Matt told me what happened.

917
00:39:04,509 --> 00:39:06,209
What are you going to do

918
00:39:06,278 --> 00:39:07,788
when Norton comes
to school on Monday?

919
00:39:09,814 --> 00:39:12,448
Norton's not my biggest worry.

920
00:39:12,516 --> 00:39:15,384
My biggest worry is that...

921
00:39:15,453 --> 00:39:18,387
you might never
respect me as a man.

922
00:39:18,456 --> 00:39:21,390
Because I acted like
a stupid kid today.

923
00:39:23,461 --> 00:39:27,897
I'm just trying so hard
to find a way to fit in.

924
00:39:27,966 --> 00:39:32,101
I'm still trying to
justify my stupidity.

925
00:39:32,170 --> 00:39:34,103
You raised me better.

926
00:39:34,172 --> 00:39:36,439
You deserve better.

927
00:39:36,507 --> 00:39:38,574
I'm still learning
about this stuff,

928
00:39:38,643 --> 00:39:41,577
but I promise you I never
want to be a part of anything

929
00:39:41,646 --> 00:39:45,548
that humiliates you
and Lucy a-and Ruthie.

930
00:39:46,884 --> 00:39:48,985
I love you, Mom.

931
00:39:49,054 --> 00:39:51,521
And I'm really, really sorry.

932
00:39:58,729 --> 00:40:00,708
I can't believe
she would trick me.

933
00:40:00,732 --> 00:40:04,166
Well, she did eventually
tell you the truth.

934
00:40:04,235 --> 00:40:06,381
I'm not talking about that.

935
00:40:06,405 --> 00:40:09,249
I'm talking about she
tricked me into having sex.

936
00:40:09,273 --> 00:40:10,740
Tricked you?

937
00:40:10,808 --> 00:40:13,709
She told me she had
some kind of female problem

938
00:40:13,778 --> 00:40:15,756
that would clear up
only if we had sex.

939
00:40:15,780 --> 00:40:17,457
Some sort of plumbing disorder.

940
00:40:17,481 --> 00:40:18,761
A birth defect.

941
00:40:18,816 --> 00:40:21,751
That could only be
cleared up with sex?

942
00:40:23,522 --> 00:40:26,288
You really should not
be out there having sex

943
00:40:26,358 --> 00:40:28,958
if you don't know any more
about women than that.

944
00:40:30,595 --> 00:40:34,196
No, you shouldn't
be having sex, period.

945
00:40:34,266 --> 00:40:36,198
Take some time off.

946
00:40:36,268 --> 00:40:39,134
Absorb some of the lessons
you've learned here today.

947
00:40:39,203 --> 00:40:41,770
Like...

948
00:40:43,340 --> 00:40:45,441
Oh, just give me a for instance.

949
00:40:45,510 --> 00:40:47,944
For instance, you don't have
sex when you're not married.

950
00:40:48,012 --> 00:40:49,679
One reason being,

951
00:40:49,747 --> 00:40:52,114
you might get pregnant
and marry someone

952
00:40:52,183 --> 00:40:54,784
that you don't want to be
with for the rest of your life.

953
00:40:54,853 --> 00:40:56,385
Yeah, that's good.

954
00:40:56,454 --> 00:40:59,388
Not to mention, that...

955
00:40:59,457 --> 00:41:04,760
it's not right to have a
child suffer through a lifetime

956
00:41:04,829 --> 00:41:06,340
of being in the middle
of a bad relationship,

957
00:41:06,364 --> 00:41:10,132
because you couldn't
sacrifice one night of sex.

958
00:41:10,201 --> 00:41:11,533
That's good, too.

959
00:41:11,602 --> 00:41:15,004
Not to mention that the only
way to get respect from a woman

960
00:41:15,073 --> 00:41:17,006
is to show respect to a woman.

961
00:41:17,074 --> 00:41:19,153
Well, what does this have
to do with respecting women.

962
00:41:19,177 --> 00:41:21,009
I mean, I respect women.

963
00:41:21,078 --> 00:41:24,013
You took my daughter to a
motel to have sex with her.

964
00:41:24,082 --> 00:41:26,815
Trying to talk her into it

965
00:41:26,884 --> 00:41:28,662
by telling her how
much you loved her,

966
00:41:28,686 --> 00:41:32,055
all the while, still
seeing Cheryl...

967
00:41:32,123 --> 00:41:34,223
Your girlfriend
of several years.

968
00:41:34,292 --> 00:41:35,736
You're still mad
about that, aren't you?

969
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,527
Yes, I am.

970
00:41:37,595 --> 00:41:40,530
But my point is that...

971
00:41:41,833 --> 00:41:45,868
you don't lie or
cheat or use women

972
00:41:45,937 --> 00:41:47,870
if you have respect for them.

973
00:41:47,939 --> 00:41:49,939
Right.

974
00:41:50,007 --> 00:41:52,708
I think you might
want to write that down.

975
00:41:52,777 --> 00:41:54,811
Okay.

976
00:41:56,914 --> 00:41:59,515
Good evening, ladies.

977
00:41:59,584 --> 00:42:02,217
Is that what you
wore to the concert?

978
00:42:02,286 --> 00:42:04,219
No, I changed my
mind about the concert.

979
00:42:04,288 --> 00:42:05,866
We went to a hamburger drive-in,

980
00:42:05,890 --> 00:42:07,234
ate in the car and talked.

981
00:42:07,258 --> 00:42:08,625
Oh.

982
00:42:08,693 --> 00:42:10,170
Now, I don't have to
get dressed for bed.

983
00:42:10,194 --> 00:42:11,260
Isn't that cool?

984
00:42:11,328 --> 00:42:12,428
Yes, it's very cool.

985
00:42:12,497 --> 00:42:14,741
So, have you talked
to my sister lately?

986
00:42:14,765 --> 00:42:17,177
Yeah, I told her I
was getting married.

987
00:42:17,201 --> 00:42:19,761
I heard. Congratulations.

988
00:42:20,605 --> 00:42:23,165
Good night. Good night.

989
00:42:26,977 --> 00:42:28,955
Uh, I'd better be going.

990
00:42:28,979 --> 00:42:30,746
Uh, wait.

991
00:42:30,815 --> 00:42:32,715
Will you be talking
to Mary again?

992
00:42:32,784 --> 00:42:36,152
I don't think so,
Reverend Camden.

993
00:42:36,220 --> 00:42:38,720
I think I should just let
her think I got married.

994
00:42:38,789 --> 00:42:40,434
That way, she knows
for sure it's over

995
00:42:40,458 --> 00:42:42,418
and she can find
someone in Buffalo.

996
00:42:42,460 --> 00:42:44,726
It'll help her settle in there.

997
00:42:44,795 --> 00:42:46,562
Maybe she'll go to school

998
00:42:46,630 --> 00:42:48,730
and make some real
friends, you know?

999
00:42:48,799 --> 00:42:53,402
On the other hand, if I'm to
be respectful of my daughter,

1000
00:42:53,471 --> 00:42:55,738
I have to tell her the truth.

1001
00:42:55,807 --> 00:42:57,473
I hope she gives you the chance.

1002
00:42:59,911 --> 00:43:01,522
Look, I know she's
not talking to you,

1003
00:43:01,546 --> 00:43:03,866
but she can't stay mad at
a nice guy like you forever.

1004
00:43:05,216 --> 00:43:07,316
Thanks for saving my life.

1005
00:43:07,385 --> 00:43:09,652
I mean that.

